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Are You Barney or Ted?

February 24, 2012 by Eric Rosenberg

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I recently ended a short lived relationship. It got me thinking introspectively on how I approach dating and life challenges in general. I always thought of myself like Barney in “How I Met Your Mother.” After my recent experiences, I have realized I might fit a different mold completely.

Barney Stinson – Legen…dary

If you had the good fortune of hanging out with me at the Financial Bloggers Conference or a night out on the town, you know how I like to roll. I want to be epic, fun, and dance with as many beautiful girls as possible.

I try to dress sharp. Not quite to the “suit up” rule from Barney, but I sport the sport coat most nights. I have always been the one to concoct adventures and crazy nights with my friends. I have stories about raves in Budapest, nightclubs in London, crazy taxi rides through Brooklyn (and contrary to what you might have read on Twitter, the check in at the police station was a joke), road trips to White Castle, and many more crazy ideas that might have gotten us injured or in trouble had we been unlucky.

I even went through a recent phase where I dated a whole lot of girls over two years. Seriously, a lot. Some close friends call it my “man whore” phase. I just thought of it as being fun and kind of badass. Kind of Barney like, right?

Wake Up Call

Over time, I realized that while I love to go out and have fun and travel the world and create memories and suit up, that is not what I want to do forever. I have longer term goals that have nothing to do with dating as many beautiful women as possible over short periods of time.

I realized that I am okay with the idea of having a girlfriend. I am okay with moving out of the dating scene. However, I still want to make amazing memories and suit up from time to time. I still want to be legen…dary.

Am I A Ted?

When that relationship ended, I realized two things. 1) I needed a drink. 2) I like being in a relationship.

No, I don’t mean I am just looking to run out and find a girlfriend for the sake of being not-single. I really enjoy being single. I like the freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want without worrying about someone else. I like being able to flirt and hit on girls at bars. I like hitting on girls anywhere, really.

But maybe a part of me is coming out that I had been suppressing for a long time. Maybe I am growing up? Maybe I am getting *shudder* mature?

Maybe I do have a bit of the hopeless romantic gene in me? A close friend recently revealed to me, much to my dismay, that I am not, in fact, a Barney. I am a Ted.

Introspection – Who Are You?

Are you a Barney or a Ted? Have you ever gone through a paradigm shift in how you look at yourself? Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.

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Filed Under: Live Better Tagged With: Barney Stinson, Dating, How I Met Your Mother, Ted Mosby

About Eric Rosenberg

Eric is the founder and editor of Personal Profitability. He left his corporate finance job in 2016 to take his online side hustle full-time and now earns a six-figure online income.

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  1. michelle says

    February 24, 2012 at 6:34 am

    My friends often joke that I’m just like Ted. Scary… haha

    • Eric says

      February 24, 2012 at 10:19 am

      Not Robin? lol. Thanks for stopping by Michelle.

  2. Financial Samurai says

    February 24, 2012 at 6:35 am

    I’m not sure if there’s anything worse than being alone, and anything better than finding someone you truly connect with.

    Good luck on the next one.

    • Eric says

      February 24, 2012 at 10:19 am

      Thanks Sam. You too. One of these days I’m sure we will each find someone special.

  3. Eric says

    February 24, 2012 at 9:42 am

    I just saw this this morning, hilarious! 
    http://pinterest.com/pin/254946028875627438/

  4. Baxter says

    February 24, 2012 at 12:13 pm

    I’ve always said it, I’m just no good on my own.  I need management to be at my best.

    • Eric says

      February 27, 2012 at 9:25 am

      It is good to be introspective enough to realize what it takes to be your best. Thanks for sharing Baxter.

  5. Dustin says

    February 24, 2012 at 7:41 pm

    I am more of a Marshall.

    I like being part of an awesome team! Plus my wife is hot!

    • Eric says

      February 27, 2012 at 9:23 am

      You sound like a lucky man. Awesome Dustin!

  6. Jackie says

    February 25, 2012 at 9:01 pm

    Well, I’ve never seen How I Met Your Mother, so I’ll just base my answer off your descriptions here. I’d have to be a Ted. If I were a guy, of course!  But it is fun to go out and do stuff. It’s even more fun to go out and do stuff with someone you love 🙂

    • Eric says

      February 27, 2012 at 9:23 am

      Awww. That’s sweet. Someday I’ll find future Mrs. Eric and we will do awesome things together!

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